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Your emotional clarity copilot
Before you react,
open Tides.
Understand what you feel. Know what to do next. The quiet pause between an emotion and a reaction you'll regret.
Private · No account · 60 seconds
Emotion → Trigger → Need → Action.
you · the bridge · them
See the translation
Your raw thought — stays private
"I'm exhausted. I held it together all week. I don't want to talk, I just want to feel like I'm not invisible in my own house."
The need underneath
She doesn't need a solution. She needs to feel seen — quiet presence, not questions.
Love language · Quality time + Acts of service
What your partner sees — today
"She's running on empty. Tonight, sit beside her. No fixing, no questions. Put your phone down for 10 minutes. That's the love language she needs right now."
One small action · In their language
Your raw thoughts stay private. You decide what to share.
The quiet truth
You've been here. You just didn't have a word for it.
- "You said something kind. They didn't notice."
- "You needed presence. They offered a fix."
- "You went quiet. They thought everything was fine."
- "They tried. You felt nothing land."
- "The fight wasn't about the dishes."
- "You both love each other. You both feel alone."
Neither of you is broken. The love isn't gone. The translation is.
#1
reason couples cite for breakups: communication — not love (Gottman Institute)
2 min
the daily ritual — less than scrolling your feed once
5
love languages translated, automatically, both ways
0
raw words ever shared without your permission
The daily ritual
Two minutes. Everything shifts.
- 01
Check in. Just for you.
2 minutes a day. Mood, energy, what you need, what you can give. No edit for the other. Honest.
- 02
Tides translates — gently.
Your raw words stay yours. Your partner only gets the version that lands in their love language. Not your pain. The map to meet you in it.
- 03
They show up. On purpose.
One small action a day, in the language your partner actually feels. Conflict softens. The guessing stops.
- 04
Your shared tide, over time.
Real patterns: the days that get hard, the weeks that flow, the things that work for the two of you. You build it on purpose.
What's inside
Three questions. Three answers, every day.
How am I feeling today?
Daily Check-In
Two minutes a day to land with yourself: how am I feeling, what do I need, what can I give. Honest — because it's just for you.
How is our relationship?
Couple Weather
A daily AI reading of your shared sky. One short forecast that tells you both how the relationship is doing today — and what it needs.
How do I better understand my partner?
Relationship Translator
Your raw words stay yours. Your partner only gets the version that lands in their love language — the map to meet you where you actually are.
Also built for the good days
Not just repair. Build.
Daily Gratitude
One small thing you appreciate about your partner, every day. They see it. You build a reservoir of good before you need it.
Sparks
When you're both glowing, Tides suggests a tiny ritual — a photo together, a note, a moment to celebrate. Good days deserve presence too.
Love Streak
Consecutive days you both checked in. Soft milestones at 7, 30, 100 days. Not a score — a quiet reminder that you keep choosing each other.
Tides isn't only for the fights you want to avoid. It's for the mornings you wake up grateful — and you want them to know.
Why Tides exists
In my marriage, I was never loved the way I needed to be loved.
And neither was he.
We were so different. We really tried.
It turned toxic. There was cheating. There was silence.
Not because the love was gone. Because the translation was.
I built Tides for the couple I used to be. For the one I wish we had been. For anyone who wants the love to last — who wants to handle conflict softer, hear each other deeper, and stop missing the person right in front of them.
Why Tides — and not the rest
Less than one therapy session. Support between the hard conversations.
Made for
Every couple still choosing each other.
- Couples who love each other but keep missing each other
- Long relationships that need a new language
- Long-distance couples
- After a rough patch — and you want to come back
- New couples who want to build it right from day one
- Anyone who's ever thought: "I tried, and they still didn't see me."
From couples already using Tides
"We stopped missing each other."
"On a arrêté de se disputer le dimanche soir. Sérieusement. La traduction change tout — il sait enfin ce dont j'ai besoin sans que je crie."
Léa & Tom · FR
"I'm the partner who didn't want to download it. Two weeks in, I check it before I check Slack. Quietly changed how I show up."
Marcus · US
"We did 18 months of therapy. Tides is what we wish we'd had between the sessions. The daily check-in alone is worth the price."
Priya & Sam · UK
"Longue distance depuis 2 ans. Cette app a remplacé les 'ça va ?' qui disent rien. On se sent vus."
Camille · FR
"The translation saved a fight last Tuesday. I finally understood what she actually needed — and she replied 'okay, I hear you.' First time in months."
Jordan · CA
"The Couple Weather every morning sets the tone. We stopped guessing where the other one was at."
Ana · ES
"We're 9 years in. Last year was rough. Tides is the first thing that's actually made a difference — and we still have our therapist."
Noah & Mia · AU
Our promise
Your inner world is yours. We never show your partner your raw thoughts, your journal, or your private check-ins. Only the translation — what they need to show up for you today.
Encrypted in transit & at rest
Your journal and check-ins are encrypted on our infrastructure. Strict row-level access — only you can read your own.
Never trains AI
Your words are never used to train any model. Not ours. Not anyone's.
Export & delete anytime
Take your data with you. Or wipe it clean. Two taps.
One subscription. Partner included.
7 days free. Then $9.99/month.
Tides Premium — the complete emotional companion for you and the person you love.
Monthly
Tides Premium
7-day free trial. Cancel anytime.
- · One-tap Pause — clarity before you react
- · Message analyzer (drafts & received)
- · Daily emotional check-ins & private journal
- · Memory layer — Tides learns your patterns
- · Repair mode after a hard moment
- · Partner invited at no extra cost
Yearly
Tides Premium
≈ $5/month — save $60 vs monthly
- · Everything in monthly
- · Two months free, every year
- · Lock in today's price
- · Priority support
- · Partner included, always
Cancel anytime · Private by default · Partner invited at no extra cost. We email you 2 days before your trial ends — no surprise charge, ever.
Honest answers
The questions you'd ask a friend.
How much does Tides cost?+
One simple plan: Tides Premium at $9.99/month or $59.99/year (save 50%). Every plan starts with a 7-day free trial, and your partner is invited at no extra cost. One subscription supports both of you.
Does my partner need their own subscription?+
No. Tides Premium includes your partner at no extra cost. They sign in with their own account and get gentle support guidance — never your private journal or raw check-ins.
Is this therapy?+
No. Tides is the daily structure that makes it harder to drift and easier to come back. It works beautifully alongside a couples therapist — bring your Tides patterns to the session and watch what happens.
What does my partner actually see?+
Only what you choose to share: a short, kind summary of what you need today (translated into their love language), the weekly intention you both agreed on, and the rituals you've set together. They never see your journal, your raw check-in text, or your mood scores.
We're long-distance / dating / married 12 years. Does it work?+
Yes — Tides is built for any couple, any stage, any composition. The cycle module is optional. The core experience doesn't depend on living together.
What if my partner refuses?+
Use Tides on your own. Your check-ins, patterns, and Today's Tide already shift the dynamic. Most partners join within 2 weeks because they notice something changed in you. Inviting them later is one tap — no extra charge.
Is my data really private?+
Yes. Encrypted in transit and at rest. We never sell or share your data, and we never train AI on your raw words. Only the translated summary leaves your side — and only to your partner, only with your permission.
Can I cancel?+
Two taps in Settings. You keep access until the end of the period you paid for. No call, no form, no guilt. We email you 2 days before the trial ends so there's never a surprise charge.
One last thing
You don't need to show up perfect.
You just need the bridge.
Private · No account · 60 seconds